FAQ: Stress Response to Traumatic
Events

- What happens to people
after a disaster or other traumatic event ?
- How do people respond
differently over time ?
- How should I help myself and
my family ?
- How do I take care of
children's special needs ?
- When should I seek
professional help ?
- Resource links ?

Shock and denial are typical responses to disaster and other kinds of trauma,
especially shortly after the event. Both shock and denial are normal protective reactions.
Shock is a sudden and often intense disturbance of your emotional state that may leave
you feeling stunned or dazed. Denial involves your not acknowledging that something very
stressful has happened, or not experiencing fully the intensity of the event. You may
temporarily numb or disconnect from life.
As the initial shock subsides, reactions vary from person to person. The following,
however, are normal responses to a traumatic event:
Feelings become intense and sometimes are unpredictable. You may
become more irritable than usual, and your moods may change back and forth dramatically.
You might be especially anxious or nervous, or even become depressed.
Thoughts and behavior patterns are affected by the trauma. You might
have repeated and vivid memories of the event. These flashbacks may occur for no apparent
reason and may lead to physical reactions such as rapid heart beat or sweating.
You may find it difficult to concentrate or make decisions, or become more easily
confused. Sleep and eating patterns also may be disrupted.
Recurring emotional reactions are common. Anniversaries of the event,
such as one month or one year, as well as reminders such as aftershocks from earthquakes
or the sounds of sirens, can trigger upsetting memories of the traumatic experience. These
"triggers" may be accompanied by fears that the stressful event will be
repeated.
Interpersonal relationships often become strained. Greater conflict
such as more frequent arguments with family members and coworkers, is common. On the other
hand, you might become withdrawn and isolated and avoid yo0ur usual activities.
Physical symptoms may accompany the extreme stress. For example,
headaches, nausea and chest pain may result and may require medical attention.
Pre-existing medical conditions may worsen due to the stress.

It is important for you to realize that there is not one "standard" pattern
of reaction to the extreme stress of traumatic experiences. Some people respond
immediately, while others have delayed reactions - sometimes months or even years later.
Some have adverse effects for long periods of time, while others recover rather quickly.
And reactions can change over time. Some who have suffered from trauma are energized
initially by the event to help them with the challenge of coping, only to later become
discouraged or depressed.
A number of factors tend to affect the length of time required for recovery, including:
the degree of intensity and loss. Events that last longer and pose a greater
threat, and where loss of life or substantial loss of property is involved, often take
longer to resolve.
a
person's general ability to cope with emotionally challenging situations.
Individuals who have handled other difficult, stressful circumstances may well find
it easier to cope with the trauma.
other stressful events preceding the traumatic experience. Individuals
faced with other emotionally challenging situations, such as serious health problems or
family-related difficulties, may have more intense reactions to the new stressful event
and need more time to recover.

There are a number of steps you can take to help restore emotional well being and a
senses of control following a disaster or other traumatic experience, including the
following:
Give
yourself time to heal. Anticipate that this will be a difficult time in your
life. allow yourself to mourn the losses you have experienced. Try to be patient with
changed in your emotional state.
Ask
for support from people who care about you and who will listen and empathize with
your situation. But keep in mind that your typical support system may be weakened if those
who are close to you also have experienced or witnessed the trauma.
Communicate your experience in whatever ways feel comfortable to you - such as by talking
with family or close friends, or keeping a journal.
Find
out about local support groups that often are available such as for those who
have suffered from natural disasters, or for women who are victims of rape. these can be
especially helpful for people with limited personal support systems.
Try to find groups led by appropriately trained and experienced professionals. Group
discussion can help people realize that other individuals in the same circumstances often
have similar reactions and emotions.
Engage
in healthy behaviors to enhance your ability to cope with excessive stress. Eat
well-balanced meals and get plenty of rest. If you experience ongoing difficulties with
sleep, you may be able to find some relief through relaxation techniques. Avoid alcohol or
drugs.
Establish
or reestablish routines such as eating meals at regular times and following an
exercise program. Take some time off the demands of daily life by pursuing hobbies or
other enjoyable activities.
Avoid
major life decisions such as switching careers or jobs if possible because these
activities tend to be highly stressful.
Become
knowledgeable about what to expect as a result of trauma. Some of the
"Additional Resources" listed may help you with this learning process.

The intense anxiety and fear that often follow a disaster or other traumatic event can
be especially troubling for children. Some may regress and demonstrate younger behaviors
such as thumb sucking or bed wetting. Children may be more prone to nightmares and fear of
sleeping alone. Performance in school may suffer. Other changes in behavior patterns may
include throwing tantrums more frequently, or withdrawing and becoming more solitary.
There are several things parents and others who care for children can do to help alleviate
the emotional consequences of trauma, including the following:
Spend
more time with children and let then be more dependent on you during the months
following the trauma - for example, allow your child to cling to you more often than
usual. Physical affection is very comforting to children who have experienced trauma.
Provide
play experiences to help relieve tension. Younger children in particular may find
it easier to share their ideas and feelings about the event through non-verbal activities
such as drawing.
Encourage
older children to speak with you, and with one another about their thoughts and
feelings. This helps reduce their confusion and anxiety related to the trauma. Respond to
questions in terms they can comprehend. Reassure them repeatedly that you care about them
and that you understand their fears and concerns.
Keep regular schedules for activities such as eating, playing and going
to bed to help restore a sense of security and normalcy.

Some people are able to cope effectively with the emotional and physical demands
brought about by a natural disaster or other traumatic experience by using their own
support systems. It is not unusual, however, to find that serious problems persist and
continue to interfere with daily living. For example, some may feel overwhelming
nervousness or lingering sadness that adversely affects job performance and interpersonal
relationships.
Individuals with prolonged reactions that disrupt their daily functioning
should consult with a trained and experienced mental health professional.
Appropriately trained mental health providers help educate people about normal responses
to extreme stress. These professionals work with individuals affected by trauma to help
them find constructive ways of dealing with the emotional impact.
With children, continual and aggressive emotional outbursts, serious problems
at school, preoccupation with the traumatic event, continued and extreme withdrawal, and
other signs of intense anxiety or emotional difficulties all point to the need for
professional assistance. A qualified mental health professional can help such
children and their parents understand and deal with thoughts, feelings and behaviors that
result from trauma.

Local chapters of the American Red Cross may be able to direct you to additional
resources. Check your local telephone directory for the chapter nearest you.
National Association of Victims Assistance
1757 Park Road, N.W. Washington D.C. 20010
Toll-free: 1.800.TRY-NOVA; in D.C. metropolitan area: 202.232.6682
"After Disaster: Steps You Can Take to Cope With a Stressful Situation",
L.A.
County Dept of Mental Health
http://gladstone.uoregon.edu/~dvb/dissteps.htm
"Coping With Emotions After a Disaster",
University of Illinois Cooperative
Extension Service
http://www.ag.uiuc.edu/~disaster/emotion.htm
"Helping Children Cope"
http://www.apa.org/kids.html